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Gen + Isac: Capturing Valentine Photography that Melts your Heart
For Gen and Isacu2019s Valentine session I paired a handmade heart backdrop with plenty of easy prompts, and the result is exactly what a Valentine shoot should feel like: warm, a little silly and full of real affection rather than stiff poses.

Once the Valentine’s Day heart was completed (you can read about that whole ordeal here), I immediately thought of Gen and Isac as the perfect couple for this backdrop. We did our Valentine photography session right after the heavy rainfall in Los Angeles, so we were unable to do an outdoor shoot with the heart like I did with Amanda and Kevin, so indoors we were. Honestly, this valentine’s’ photography backdrop is super versatile, and its cozy aesthetic works perfectly indoors.

Just like any session with me, for my valentine photography sessions we started out with some super basic posing with simple prompts. My favorite thing to do with couples is give loose prompts that you can mold to fit your dynamic perfectly. So, we started off with Gen sitting between Isac’s legs and mixed it up with them looking at each other, kissing each other’s cheeks, relaxing, and getting comfortable in front of the camera. These were adorable.
My favorite moment during their session was when I told them to roll together along the blanket. Essentially, Gen started on top of Isac and then they rolled. It sounds super challenging, but the photos turned out so cute because they were both laughing the whole time. It definitely is no the most comfortable pose but the before, during, and after are all winners, so just like the old-timey quote says “beauty is pain.”
Another one of my favorites that I started doing with Eileen and Steven is having couples close their eyes, lean as far back as they can, and then try and kiss without opening their eyes. This always leads to some funny moments where you kiss each other’s noses or cheeks or sometimes you are so in sync that you actually do kiss. The photographs that came from this pose are definitely some of my favorite from their session.
In my mind this backdrop emulates a young adult romance novel. So, I had to have them lie in opposite directions on the blanket and look at each other. It was so cute and definitely a YA moment. They are ready for the book cover deal. Calling all Penguin Random House representatives, it’s time to get the deal ready. Gen and Isac were so much fun to work with and always went along with all my weird ideas. They even play fought for me, which was so cute, mostly because they were laughing and smiling the whole time.
This was the first valentine photography session I did with my new set. I had so much fun messing around with angles and poses. Exploring different ways my backdrop can be incorporated into sessions is one of my favorite aspects of a new set. There are and were just oh so many options and I could never run out of prompts and ideas. Creating this masterpiece was so inspiring. Seeing the idea that started as a seed in my brain come to fruition was a heady feeling. I am excited to see what backdrops I come up with for future celebrations. I am particularly excited for pride!!

So if you are thinking of doing a studio or a valentine photography session and are hesitating, leap, do it. Create some good as memories, laugh a lot, and walk away with adorable photographs just like Gen and Isac. How can you go wrong when you are forming memories and left with a permanent reminder of your love. You can’t…that’s how
February 22, 2024
The Love Backdrop: Struggles and Victories
This is the behind-the-scenes story of how I built my Valentine love backdrop by hand, including the doubts, the trial and error, and the small victories along the way, for anyone curious about the work behind a themed photography set.

I remember growing up thinking ugh Valentine’s Day is so overrated…why do you need such a conspicuous display of your love? But now as an adult, I think about how fun and playful Valentine’s day can be, a chance to take time for each other and yourself. I wanted it to encapsulate all types of love (self-love and romantic). Essentially be the Love Backdrop. SO beautiful in our frantic world!

Love should be celebrated; it is a joy. And, let’s be honest, life gets busy and sometimes you don’t have time to just sit down and tell your partner how much you adore them.

So, when I started creating my Valentine’s Day Love backdrop, I wanted it to reflect the beauty and imperfect nature of love. If you ask me that is what makes it special. Set it Up, a cheesy rom com on Netflix said, “I love you not because of but in spite of.”

One of my many crafty interests is crocheting. Now, I only learnt how to crochet from a friend and the first coaster I ever made took multiple hours. So, crocheting 16 feet of wire in the shape of a heart was a massive undertaking. My original idea was creating a massive heart that could stand in a flowerpot weighed down by sand. Then a picnic blanket with body pillows, chocolate, and roses would be in front. Perfectly setting the stage for an intimate photography session. But there were complications upon complications which led it to the final results that I personally am in love with. I can’t wait to put the Valentine’s Day backdrop to use for other celebrations, like pride.

Step 1: Creating a heart sculpture out of wire.

This is the most important part of the love backdrop!

I have never worked with wire before, so I did not know where to start. I knew I needed thicker wire to make sure it could support the yarn and would be visible behind the picnic blanket. What I did not know was that its sturdiness is not solely dependent on thickness but also gauge. And I did not realize that I would be unable to create a point without any wire tools.

I got out my roll of wire on the floor and realized I had no way to hold down the ends to shape it. This wire is massive, and my friends were occupied with their own jobs, so I was on my own. The heaviest piece of furniture in my house is a couch. The problem here is that the couch legs are wood, which is soft and could be cut by the wire. As any problem-solver would, I came up with a solution, sponges. I got out two handy dandy sponges and placed the wire in-between and then placed this underneath the couch leg. Finally, I could get to work.

At first it looked like a massive blob.

After about an hour it resembled a heart. Because I couldn’t create a point, with the help of my bestie YuYu, we decided the best look would be a cartoon heart (wide with a shallow dip). The biggest challenge was getting rid of the small kinks and getting each side to mirror each other. The heart is so big that it was impossible to see the entire heart from the ground. The only way was from an elevated vantage point, aka jumping up on the couch and going on your tiptoes.

Even at this stage of building the love backdrop i was nervous. Part of me was ready to give up already, but the bigger part was excited and couldn’t wait to create something beautiful and powerful.

Step 2: Acquire yarn and create a yarn chain long enough to go around the heart’s perimeter.

This task was easy, well minus the getting yarn. I wanted red yarn for the lace edging but the only weight at Joann’s was too thick. So I settled for cream yarn. (now I am glad for this challenge). Because the yarn is cream rather than white, it allows uses for the backdrop to be diversified. Transforming my vision into a love backdrop rather than a backdrop exclusively for Valentine’s Day. I sat down on the couch and an hour later had a chain with probably at least a thousand of chains. A chain is the basic stitch in crocheting that you build upon. I made the chain a tad longer than necessary in case there was any shrinkage once I attached it around the heart, which ultimately was needed.

Step 3: Begin crocheting the love backdrop’s heart

Crochet three rows of single crochets. Then attach the yarn to the wire with a fourth round of single crochets

This is pretty straightforward, just time intensive. For the wire I procured, three rounds was just enough to cover outside completely. The fourth round of single crochets took longer because they were done around the wire . This attaches it to the yarn and builds a layer of chains to add the pattern to!

Step 4: Crochet on the pattern

(I got this pattern from Crochet Knitting Therapy on youtube)

Row 1 and 2: chain 5, skip two , double crochet (dc), chain (ch) 2, dc, ch2, & repeat until you have made it around. At the end, because mine was a heart, I did a slip stitch at the end to form a complete loop.

Row 3: repeat the pattern for row 1 until you have 5 spaces then in the 6^th, 6 dc, ch 10, flip over the yarn and slip stitch (sl st) into dc #1, then ch2 and sl st into the next dc (which should be the fifth), then flip it back over and put 4 dc into the big loop you created.

Then you ch 17, count down 9 and sl st, flip over the ring you created, ch3, 3 dc, ch 3, 1 sc and repeat until you have 4 petals, for the first petal in each flower once you have completed your 3 dc you either attach it to the last flower you completed at the 3 dc or you count out 5 of the spaces and attach it to row 2 with a sl st and then continue chaining 3. then ch 10 and sl to the fourth dc you put in the big ring.

Repeat until you have six flowers around the ring. Then 4 dc, ch 2, skip one space and dc into the dc. Then you repeat until you have 5 more spaces, attach the sixth flower to this spot through a sl st and then repeat this pattern until you’ve gone the whole way around.

This pattern sounds super complicated and it definitely is not easy. With that being said once you get the hang of it, it goes much more quickly. I think my first one took me over an hour and by the end they only took about 30 minutes. And if what I wrote made no sense, the YouTube video is easier to follow!

Step 5: Reshape the whole heart.

The focal element of the love backdrop is the heart. So of course when it was destroyed in the process of crocheting around it, I was stressed. But I was able to reshape it with the help of my sturdy friend, the couch.

Step 6: Block the heart.

If you are not a crocheter that means absolutely nothing to you. To be honest I had never blocked any of my past crochet projects either. All this entails is lightly wetting the yarn with a spray bottle. Then you use thumbtacks to pin it in place where you want it to sit.

Step 7: Moving the love backdrop’s heart to stand vertically.

Well this is where the next major problem arose. Turns out the yarn weighed too much so the heart shape collapsed and suddenly I had a massive blob with a delicate yarn edging. I had already purchased a white flowerpot from Home Depot and bought a whole 0.5 cubic foot of deconstructed granite and a 5 lb bag of aquarium gravel for the top (because it is prettier) and when I tried to stand it up in it, it simply collapsed. So back to the thinking board.

My three options were either, give up (not in my DNA), buy a sturdier wire wrap it in yarn and hot glue them together, or get a trellis to secure it to. A wire reinforcement could have worked, but there was no guarantee that would be too heavy and still collapse, so a trellis it is.

Well, it turns out most are only two feet wide, and lots are shorter than the 4-5 feet I needed. Luckily I found an expandable trellis that was a little wider. When it arrived, I set down a massive sheet of cardboard to reshape the heart on and used a heavy flowerpot outside to hold the end in place. Then I placed the trellis on top of it and using the 120 cable ties I procured, started to secure the Valentine’s Day heart in place. I was rushing to beat the sunlight, so I could place it in the garage safely before the torrential three-day downpour began.

Thankfully this worked and the trellis was strong enough to support the heart.

SUCCESS

Step 8: Take Sample photos.

The rain destroyed any hope at taking sample Valentine’s Day photographs outdoors, so an at-home studio session was in order. Thankfully I already had a photography stand (most of my photography is outdoor). Although, I had yet to use it, so I did not have anything to put behind it as a solid background, but my quick research showed that king sized flat sheets were large enough to solve my conundrum. So, I was able to set up an indoor session with the help of my friends, Gen and Isac. Because it was an indoor session, my friend Michelle helped me weave fairy lights through the outside of the lace edging, adding an air of magic and love!

In the end, I love the Valentine’s day backdrop I built and think it is so versatile. Truly as the project continued, it became a love backdrop rather than a Valentine’s Day backdrop. It symbolizes love, dedication, care and passion, and at least personally perseverance through barriers and challenges along the way. I can’t wait to think of ways to spice it up with small flowers or rainbow flowers

Ready for some of my favorites??
February 20, 2024
Exclusive Dreamy Valentine’s Day Session with Amanda and Kevin
Amanda and Kevin were the perfect couple to bring my handmade Valentine backdrop to life. Their session is soft, romantic and a little dreamy, showing how a simple themed set plus relaxed direction becomes genuinely tender couple portraits.

So, by now you have probably heard about the journey building my Valentine’s Day session backdrop was. During the process it felt like the universe colluded against me, but in the end, it was a gorgeous set perfect to capture the essence of your love. In fact, because it was not quite perfect, it is more representative of your love. Love is neither perfect nor uncomplicated. I am really excited for all of the potential it has to be used in the future!

This year the heart was available for two exclusive Valentine’s Day sessions only. This week I wanted to share some of my favorites from Amanda and Kevin’s session!
From the minute I read Amanda’s inquiry form, I knew her relationship would be a blast to photograph. They did not disappoint. Kevin and Amanda were one of the most amusing couples I have had the pleasure of working with. Amanda and Kevin have been together for three years and their first date is one of the most memorable I’ve ever heard about. They talked for 14 hours and then proceeded to hangout the next day, after taking a quick nap. So, if you are looking for a metric to see if your partner is the one, here’s a new standard. After meeting them, I can see how perfect they are for each other. They continuously riffed of one another, and I don’t know about them, but I certainly did not stop laughing.

So, one of my favorite ways to start a couples’ session is by playing a card game. This game has extremely bizarre prompts on it (i.e. blow on your partner and say I’m giving you a blowjob) but is amazing for getting you out of your head and laughing in front of the camera. Most couples are a little hesitant at first but not Amanda and Kevin. About seven cards in, Kevin got the prompt to do parkour off the environment surrounding the Valentine’s Day Park picnic setup and he went all out. The man was jumping off the trees and even leapt across the blanket, which did not end ideally. The grass was a tad wet, so he slipped and fell onto his butt. But Kevin took this in stride, leaving me and Amanda laughing really hard. And there is photographic evidence of this magnificent leap.

I love working with couples who are willing to try any prompt or pose I throw at them. Two of my favorite things are having couples play tag around a tree or fixture nearby and if we are in an outdoor space like a park, have them roll down the hill or plane. Amanda and Kevin, yet again gave it their all. I don’t think I have seen an adult roll as quickly as Kevin before and he even jumped onto a tree while they were playing tag.

The set I created was beautiful to tie their love together. They threw roses at each other, pretended to smell them, kissed behind them, and held the chocolate box together. And the body pillows made the perfect cuddle spot, where they could snuggle up close to each other.

So, enjoy some of my favorites!
February 20, 2024
How to be Your Own Valentine This Year

You do not need a partner to celebrate Valentineu2019s Day. Being your own Valentine simply means treating yourself with the same care you would give someone you love, whether that is a favorite meal, a small gift, a solo adventure or a restful day; here are my favorite ways to do it.

While Valentine’s Day is commonly thought of as reserved solely for romantic partners, it does not have to be and is honestly the perfect opportunity to affirm yourself and appreciate your personal growth. So, this year, join me and do something a little different. So, this is my guide to “How to be Your Own Valentine!” If you were searching for an occasion to indulge yourself this, is it!

So, here are eight contenders. If you have other ideas, drop them in the comments!

1. Plan a Solo Adventure for Valentine’s Day

Each and every one of us has at least one dream trip or adventure we want to go on. This could be a day trip down to Santa Barbara or simply a hike you’ve been dying to go on. So, this Valentine’s Day plan to go on that solo adventure. Some other ideas are exploring a new museum, going zip-lining, a pottery class, a jewelry class, going rock-climbing, go to a new national park, take the time to read that book that’s been sitting on your bookshelf.

These activities will give you a chance to explore a new side of yourself and take time for yourself.

2. Host your Own Valentine’s Movie Marathon

Who says you need a romantic partner to have a movie marathon. You can have your own or you could invite some of your best friends over and plan a movie night with some of each person’s favorites. So, what goes into a Valentine’s Day themed movie night? I am glad you asked. If it was me, I would choose films that celebrate love, women empowerment, and self-discovery. Then I would make some buttery popcorn, get out my favorite chocolates and sweets, get into my coziest pajamas, and watch movies all night long. Heck, the best part of this movie marathon, is that it DOES NOT matter what movies anyone else likes, just you!

3. Treat Yourself to a Spa Day or Have an At Home Spa Day

You could either go into a spa or do this one at home. If you go into a spa salon indulge in every treatment that sounds interesting or you’ve been wanting to try (or what your budget permits). You could get a massage, a facial, and a manicure or pedicure. Or maybe there is a specific scrub you want to try. Or if you are doing this at home, get a face mask or two, a bath bomb, and your favorite wine. Then prepare a bath, get your face mask on, and read your book or watch your favorite movie in the bath with a glass of wine in hand.

4. Cook Yourself a Valentine’s Day Meal

If you are busy like me, you do not often have the time to cook a proper, delicious meal. So, this Valentine’s Day set out the time to plan a delicious (healthy) meal. If you like experimenting, you could find some new recipes or come up with your own recipe. Then set out some candles and get yourself flowers for your dining room table. Pour yourself a glass of wine and enjoy. Or if cooking is not your thing, you could pick up your favorite take-out food, set the table with flowers and candles and tuck into your take-out. If you need to relax and slow-down, then put on some comfy clothes and enjoy. The most important part of being your own valentine is listening to what your body and mind need!

5. Practice Creative Self-Expression

Now, don’t tell me that you are not creative, because every single person is, just in different ways. Say you’re an analytical scientist, you are still creative. You are utilizing the data you’re collecting and coming up with creative solutions. So, this Valentine’s Day, create something. You could paint, write, do something crafty like crocheting or felting, play music and dance your heart out. Get rid of any self-imposed expectations and do the first thing that comes to mind.

6. Take Yourself Shopping this Valentine’s Day

This one falls into the indulge yourself category, but this Valentine’s Day treat yourself to a shopping adventure or buy yourself that one thing you’ve had your eye on but keep coming up with reasons not to buy. It could be a new outfit, workout gear, make-up, lingerie, or it could be getting yourself a pedicure (Lavender Nails here in Pasadena is amazing!). Regardless of what it is, treat yourself to something you love and brings you happiness!

7. Plan a Hangout (In-person or Virtual) with Friends

If you don’t want to spend Valentine’s Day by yourself organize a virtual or in-person hangout with your closest friends. You could have a game night (Code Names is a super fun game to play online), you could have a movie watch party, or simply facetime and talk about all the new happenings in each of your lives. This way you are spending Valentine’s Day with everyone you love and cherish!

8. Journaling! Practice Gratitude and Self-Reflection

Time to get that journal out! This year take some time to reflect on your journey and how far you’ve come. You should be proud of yourself. So, here are some Valentine’s Day writing prompts: write yourself a love letter, jot down 15 affirmations, come up with 15 goals, come up with 15 accomplishments you are proud of (could be as simple as made myself dinner or went on a run or drew something cool), write down all of your strengths, or you could think about changes you want to make! We are all our biggest critics, so this Valentine’s Day it is time to take a moment for self-love.

To Conclude

Hopefully, this gave you some ideas as to how to be your own valentine this year. Truly, you are an independent badass and deserve to take this time to do something just for you. Regardless of if you decide to go on a solo-adventure, have a DIY spa day, enjoy a cozy movie night, cook yourself a gourmet meal, start reading a new book, or spend the evening journaling, remember that you are the most important person in your life. So treat yourself kindly and be proud of how far you’ve come.

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February 14, 2024
Explore Unique Valentine’s Day Traditions Around the World
Valentineu2019s Day is celebrated in wonderfully different ways around the world, from anonymous pressed-flower cards in Denmark to women gifting chocolate in Japan and friendship-focused celebrations in Finland; here is a tour of the most charming traditions.

Valentine’s Day is celebrated in unique ways across the world. So, this week I thought it would be cool to look at all of the different Valentine’s Day Traditions across the world!

The United States

Here, In the United States, Valentine’s Day is synonymous with romantic gestures of all sizes, gifts, and outward expressions of love. Typically couples exchange chocolates, flowers, and heartfelt cards. Most restaurants and entertainment businesses offer special deals for romantic dinners and activities. Other businesses host special events, such as a Latte making class. School-aged children also spend het day exchanging valentines and candies with their classmates. Current celebrations are shifting towards more creative and homemade gift ideas, such as personalized items, experiences, and weekend getaways.

Europe

The United Kingdom

In the UK, Valentine’s Day is a dedicated time for those in relationships to express their affection and love through gestures such as cards, flowers, and romantic gestures. Similar to the U.S. lots of restaurants have Valentine’s Day menus that showcase yummy dishes and high-brow wines.

France

In France, often thought of as the epicenter of romance, Valentine’s Day is a massive celebration. Those in relationships, exchange cartes d’amour (love letters) and often eat at a candlelit restaurant, whether it is a quaint bistro or a Michelin-starred restaurant. The city of Paris, aka the city of love, with its iconic landmarks like the Eiffel Tower and Notre-Dame Cathedral, becomes even more magical on Valentine’s Day, drawing couples from all over the world.

Germany

In Germany, Valentine’s Day is called Valentinswoche, which is a week-long celebration preceding Valentine’s Day, February 14^th. Throughout this week, couples exchange small gifts symbolizing their love and appreciation for their partner. All of these gifts demonstrate their love through thoughtful gestures and acts of service, solidify couples’ love for each other.

Italy

Italy is a country known for its romantic flair. Common Valentine’s activities include going on romantic gondola rides along the canal, enjoying gelato, and visiting iconic landmarks such as the Trevi Fountain and the Ponte Vecchio. One of Italy’s most popular Valentine’s Day traditions involves “Baci Perugina,” a chocolate-covered hazelnut. This is kind of like a chocolate version of a fortune cookie. Inside the chocolate-covered hazelnuts is a love-letter/note. These little notes are typically romantic messages or quotes about love. If you ask me, these sound absolutely delicious, who doesn’t love chocolate covered hazelnuts??

Wales

Wales has a unique Valentine’s Day tradition. In Wales couples exchange intricately carved wooden spoons, known as Lovespoons. These spoons are often carved with symbols such as hearts, keys and locks, which represent one’s love and commitment to each other. Historically, a young man would spend hours carving elaborate Lovespoons and offer it to his partner and hope they would accept it.

Estonia

Estonia views Valentine’s Day as a celebration of love and friendship. Actually, it commonly refers to Valentine’s Day as Friend’s Day, encouraging everyone to show appreciation for their friends and loved ones. Personally, I am in complete agreement with Estonia, and agree that Valentine’s Day should emphasize the importance of all relationships not just romantic relationships.

Asia

Philippines

This is one of the coolest, most unique Valentine’s Day traditions around the world if you ask me. In the Philippines, Valentine’s Day is a popular day for couples to get married during mass wedding ceremonies. In these ceremonies, couples who might not be able to afford a traditional wedding are able to celebrate their love in a meaningful way. The mass weddings are often sponsored by the local government, non-profit organizations, or private institutions. This removes the financial barrier and allows everyone to celebrate their love together, bringing the community together.

South Korea

South Korea has two holidays directly tied to Valentine’s Day. On their Valentine’s Day, women gift men chocolates. One month after is White Day on which men reciprocate the gesture and give their women gifts often including chocolates, flowers, or any other token of appreciation. Then, one month later on April 14^th is Black Day. This is a holiday dedicated to single people, who gather and eat Jajangmyeon, which is a black bean paste noodle dish.

Japan

In Japan, the main form of celebrating Valentine’s Day is women gifting chocolates to men. There are two different types of chocolate that get gifted. The first is for romantic partners or where romantic feelings are present, honmei-choco. The second is for friends, colleagues and family members giri-choco, which are chocolates gifted out of appreciation or politeness.

China

The Chinese equivalent of Valentine’s Day is the Qixi Festival. This is celebrated on the seventh ay of the seventh lunar month, which is August 10, 2024. This festival is based upon the annual meeting of Zhinü and Niulang in Chinese mythology. To celebrate, couples often exchange gifts, go on elaborate romantic dates, and express their love for one another.

India

Valentine’s Day is not typically celebrated in Indian culture, although amongst younger generations it is picking up popularity. Some couples embrace the holiday as a means to show their love and affection for their partner.

Thailand

In Thailand, Valentine’s Day coincides with Makha Bucha, commemorating the day when 1250 monks spontaneously gathered to hear Buddha preach. This holiday is celebrated by releasing lanterns into the sky or floating candles down the river to symbolize love and good fortune.

Latin America

Brazil

In Brazil, Valentine’s Day is known as Dia dos Namorados, which translates to Lovers’ Day. This celebration does not take place on February 14^th but rather on June 12^th. For Día dos Namorados, couples spend the day together and exchange chocolates, flowers, and other meaningful gifts. Additionally, the houses and streets are decorated. This holiday is not just for those in relationships. In Brazil, if you are single there are many rituals you can perform, here are three:
1. For more passion: you mix a glass of water and coffee powder and leave it untouched for three days and dispose of it on the fourth day.
2. If you want to forget old love you place two sprigs of fennel in a glass with water and leave it alone for 3 days after which you empty it into your garden of a flowerpot.
3. If you want to get rid of envious feelings towards those in relationships, you add coarse salt and brown sugar to a full water bottle and after the third day you empty the water in the shape of a cross in front of your house.
For more information about the Simpatias and traditions, read here!

Mexico

In Mexico, Valentine’s Day is known as El Día del Amor y la Amistad, which translates to The Day of Love and Friendship. Like Estonia, in Mexico, El Día del Amor y la Amistad is a celebration of both romantic and platonic love. People exchange gifts, flowers, and cards with loved ones, and restaurants have special offers and manus. In some communities, there are parades, concerts, and other public events to mark the occasion.

Argentina

In Argentina, Valentine’s Day is celebrated as part of Semana de la Dulzura, which translates to sweetness week. During this week, which typically takes place in July, people exchange candies, chocolates, and other treats with their loved ones. This week is used to show your appreciation for friends, family and romantic partners.

Colombia

Columbia celebrates El Día del Amor y la Amistad. A day to celebrate your love and appreciation for all of you friends, family, and romantic partners. Columbian cities are adorned with heart-shaped decorations. Often there are other concerts, festivals, or events to celebrate El Día del Amor y Amistad.

Peru

In Peru, Valentine’s Day is known as El Día del Amor, which directly translates to Day of Love. On this day, couples celebrate their love with romantic gestures of varying sizes, such as exchanging gifts and dining out. And cities are decorated with flowers and heart-shaped balloons, generating an overall excitement and enthusiasm for the El Día del Amor

Africa

South Africa

In South Africa, couples often spend Valentine’s Day going on romantic adventures, like going on a picnic or having dinner at a classy restaurant. Some people even go on hot balloon rides or on wine tasting tours in the Cape Winelands.

Nigeria

In Nigeria, Valentine’s Day is celebrated through music, dance, and poetry. Lots of people gather at parties, concerts, and cultural events to show their love and appreciation through song, dance, and spoken performances.

Ghana

In Ghana, Valentine’s Day is known as Red and White Day. On this day, people dress in red and white and exchange gifts and cards. Many schools and workplaces host special events and activities to celebrate Red and White day, creating a festive atmosphere surrounding the holiday.

Kenya

In Kenya, the Maasai community celebrates their love on Valentine’s day through the exchange of traditional gifts, such as beaded jewelry and clothing with intricate patterns and symbols. Traditional ceremonies and rituals can take place on Valentine’s Day that bless newlywed couples and reaffirm love and commitment within the community.

Egypt

In Egypt, Valentine’s Day is commonly celebrated with a romantic cruise along the Nile River. On the cruise, couples get to enjoy the spectacular views of ancient temples and monuments. As well as consume delicious food and watch live entertainment.

To Conclude

There are so many different Valentine’s Day traditions around the world. While writing this blog post, I loved seeing the similarities in how Valentine’s Day is celebrated across the world, but also the differentiations. I personally, think that Valentine’s Day should be used to celebrate all forms of love, platonic and romantic, and so it was really cool seeing that South Korea has its own holiday specifically for friendships. And I thought that Wales’s tradition of Lovespoons was really cool and far more meaningful than buying cheap flowers and stuffed animals. And the Phillippines’s tradition of mass weddings is something I never knew about, but an brilliant idea that truly brings the community together.

The way we celebrate Valentine’s Day around the world will continue to evolve as the digital era continues, but it is super valuable to take a step back and appreciate who is around you in a meaningful way. And hey, the digital world means that now you are able to celebrate Valentine’s Day with your family, friends, and romantic partners even if you are not physically in the same state.

If you want to read about 33 unique ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day, you can do so here!
February 13, 2024
33 Unique Valentine’s Day Ideas
If you want to celebrate Valentineu2019s Day differently this year, you have plenty of options, from cozy at-home date nights and creative DIY gifts to outdoor adventures and mini getaways; below are thirty-three unique ideas to make the day your own.

Valentine’s Day is a holiday dedicated to your love and your love alone. So, celebrating valentine’s day with a unique idea makes it significantly more meaningful, allowing you to show your appreciation and dedication to your partner. It is easy to buy chocolates and flowers, fewer people spend time planning an activity that will form core memories and further deepen your connection. So, here are 32 unique Valentine’s Day ideas for you to execute, some are simple and some are more time intensive.
1. Create a scavenger hunt: Your scavenger hunt can be based on a hobby of theirs, or their favorite movie, or meaningful locations to your relationship. Honestly, there are an infinite number of ways to make a scavenger hunt, but make sure it is tailored to your partner. If you are crafting it to be significant locations to your relationship you can include places like where you had your first date or first met or told each other “I love you.”
2. DIY wine or chocolate tasting at home: Rather than just getting a box full of chocolates and gifting them to your partner, you could get an assortment of wines and chocolates and set up an at-home tasting station. You can take turns sampling each chocolate and wine. Once you’ve tried each one you can make separate lists of your favorite flavors and pairings and compare.
3. Write love letters and read them aloud: what could be more romantic than reading a heartfelt love letter to your partner and vice versa. You can read them to each other over dinner or cozied up on the couch. You could even write them together at a park. But make sure you sit down and think about what you want to say to your partner and tell them all the reasons your life is better with them in it. And you walk away with a keepsake for moments where you might want reassurance but can’t be physically near your partner.
4. Plan a surprise picnic: As a park enthusiast, a picnic is always going to be on my list. To make this extra romantic, you can pack a basket with your partner’s favorite snacks, drinks, and activities. You could bring mini canvases to paint together, or books if they’re an avid reader, or frisbee disks if they would enjoy that. I recommend choosing a picturesque scenic spot where you can relax and enjoy each other’s company.
5. Couples cooking class: Cooking with other people can be stressful, but a cooking class is always a good time. Especially, since someone else is guiding you through the process, so you are almost guaranteed a delicious meal. You can branch out with a cooking class and learn to cook a new recipe or learn new culinary techniques.
6. Latte Art Class: If this is not a unique valentine’s day idea, I don’t know what is. But I don’t know if you have ever tried making coffee well foam art, but it is challenging as f***. So, why not try something new this Valentine’s Day. And hey, some of the most fun adventures are doing things that you suck at, as long as you can laugh at yourself. If you are located near Redondo Beach, Klatch Coffee is hosting a latte art class.
7. Movie marathon: If your partner loves movies like I do, selecting a lineup of some of their favorite movies or romantic movies to watch together is a wonderful way to spend your valentine’s day. With a line-up in hand, you can make it even cozier with blankets, pillows, and delicious snacks.
8. Couples massage or spa day: Given that Valentine’s Day falls on a Wednesday this year, this idea will work better on the weekend preceding Valentine’s Day or the weekend after. You can treat yourselves to a day of relaxation and pampering at the spa. You could do couples massages, or facials, hot tub soaks, or anything else your local spa offers.
9. Memory jar: As a super sentimental person, this one is a winner in my eyes. You could start a tradition of creating a memory jar. This jar will be filled with notes containing your favorite shared moments, inside jokes, and really any special memories you want to preserve. This tradition can continue on throughout the year and a near jar could be started each Valentine’s Day.
10. Sunset hike and stargazing: If you and your partner enjoy hiking or stargazing, you could go on a scenic hike to a lookout or mountaintop and watch the sunset. I would personally bring along a blanket, so you have somewhere to lie down and watch the starry sky! If you both are not big on hiking, then you could a drivable viewpoint in Los Angeles and bring a blanket and snacks to enjoy while you watch the sunset and magical night.
11. Homemade chocolates or treats: If you enjoy cooking together, you could find a recipe for homemade chocolates, truffles, or another one of your favorite sweets. You could try different flavor combinations or have fun making traditional delicious chocolates together
12. Virtual date night: this one is for my long-distance couples. If for whatever reason you are unable to spend Valentine’s Day together in-person, you can plan a virtual date night on facetime or Zoom. Now, instead of simply calling you can play games together, watch a movie simultaneously, cook the same recipe together, or draw or paint together.
13. Love song or poem: If you love putting your thoughts into writing, you could write and perform a love song or poem for your partner. This is a super creative, unique way to express your feelings of gratitude and love to your partner. If you are trying to up the romantic, you can set up some candles or sit by a fireplace (if you have one).
14. Scenic drive: If you love driving, you could take a leisurely drive together and enjoy the beautiful views and the journey. You can stop along the way to explore cute towns you pass through or stunning landscapes. A scenic drive will allow you to enjoy each others company.
15. Themed dinner night: If you are really into trying new cuisines or learning about different cultures, you could have a themed dinner. You can research traditional dishes and decorations and go on an adventure together. If you aren’t interested in trying different cuisines, you could theme your dinner with your favorite movie, for example: a Gilmore Girls themed dinner.
16. Vision board: If you like creating goals and envisioning the future, you can set aside time to create a vision board together. It could be filled with images and words that represent your dreams, goals, and desires as a couple.
17. Surprise weekend getaway: If your partner loves exploring new places, this could be the perfect unique valentine’s day activity for you. You could plan a spontaneous getaway to somewhere nearby for a weekend. Sweep your partner off their feet. Depending on what you both like to do you could choose a cozy bed and breakfast or a luxury hotel or a charming mountain cottage oasis. A surprise weekend getaway will let you escape your everyday routines and enjoy each other’s company.
18. Dance class: If you both like dancing or being active this one is for you. You could take a dance class together. This could be an upbeat class where you are learning new moves or just messing around, or it could be a ballroom dance class where you are sharing intimate moments. Regardless of if you take a Zumba class, go to a salsa, tango, or ballroom dance class, it will bring you closer together and make a happy memory.
19. Indoor fort: Who said indoor forts are just for children? Definitely not me. You can build a cozy fort in your living room with blankets, pillows, and furniture. Inside your fort, you can cuddle each other, play games, eat your favorite snacks, or enjoy a movie night.
20. Volunteer together: If you both enjoy giving back to the community this is the perfect unique valentine’s day idea. You can volunteer at a local charity or organization. This could be serving meals at a soup kitchen, helping with a beach cleanup, or helping at an animal shelter. You can show how much attention you pay to your partner, by what charitable activity you plan!
21. Photoshoot: As a photographer, of course this is on my list. But seriously, hiring a professional photographer to capture your relationship. In the heart of a single frame lies a tale that transcends the bounds of time – a story that unfolds with the click of a shutter. Each moment preserved by the photographer will become a treasured relic that you can look back on whenever you want. Checkout my Valentine’s Special here!
22. Rooftop dinner: If you like trying new restaurants and cityscape views, you can organize a romantic rooftop dinner. The other way to do this is on your own rooftop if you have access. If you want to up the romance, you can set up candles, string lights, and soft music and enjoy a delicious meal.
23. Playlist of songs: Aka make a modern mixtape. Your mixtape can be composed of songs that hold significant meaning to your relationship or songs that remind you or your partner. You can listen to the playlist together and reminisce about each memory associated with each song.
24. Write a love story together: A little bit like Mad Libs, you can write a love story together that reflects your relationship. Or you can predesign your own Mad Lib and write out your love story emitting random nouns, Proper nouns, adjectives, and adverbs. Then on Valentine’s Day you can have your partner fill in the missing words and laugh at the story it tells. If you write a proper love story together, you can incorporate your senses of humor and adventure and the ways you care for each other. You can alternate choosing plot twists and motifs to include. A perfect unique Valentine’s Day idea that is completely personalized and irreproducible. If you were going all out, you could even get it printed and turn it into a booklet.
25. Virtual double date: If you are like me and most of your besties live in different states, you can arrange for a virtual double date with them. This way you get to spend time with more than just one loved one. On your virtual double date you can play games, share stories, or simply enjoy each other’s company. If you are looking for a fun group game, I recommend Code names.
26. Art museum or gallery: If you guys love art or art history, you could visit a museum or gallery and explore each exhibit hand in hand. Afterwards, you can discuss your favorite pieces, interpretations, and artistic styles you saw.
27. Recreate a memorable moment: a little roleplaying never hurt anybody. You can recreate a special moment in your relationship, like your first date, proposal, or favorite anniversary or celebration. This will demonstrate to your partner that you are always paying attention to them and could be a super fun activity!
28. Themed costume night: I already mentioned this one earlier with themed dinners, but for a themed costume night you can dress up like your favorite fictional couples or characters from movies, books, or TV shows. You can go all out with your outfits and accessories and spend the rest of the evening embodying their personalities.
29. Pottery or painting class: If you are artsy or interested in trying new things, you could take a pottery or painting class together. Regardless of if you are any good, you will form funny memories and get to explore your creativity. Who knows, maybe you will learn a new skill. If you are already into art, you can learn a new technique, experiment with a new medium, and create unique works of art to remember this Valentine’s Day with.
30. Adventure activities: If you are both super adventurous, you can plan an intensive day of thrilling activities like zip-lining, kayaking, rock-climbing, white-water rafting, snow-shoeing, the options are needless. But what better way to spend Valentine’s Day than conquering new challenges, and creating unforgettable memories of these shared adventures.
31. Candlelit dinner at home: This one is a classic, but still worthy of being included in this list. So, what else screams “I love you and Happy Valentine’s Day” than preparing a candlelit dinner for just you two. You could cook one of their favorite dishes or something they want to try. You can set up a table with flowers in the center and candles surrounding it. Then turn off your phones, take off your Apple Watches or Garmin’s and enjoy a distraction free evening.
32. Scrapbook or photo album: I am all about making and preserving memories, so what better than creating a scrapbook together. You can include your favorite memories together, photos taken through the progression of your relationship, any ticket stubs you have and little mementos from your adventures. While creating your scrapbook, you can reminisce over each memory and enjoy each other’s company. If you made a custom playlist for Valentine’s Day, you could combine it with the scrapbooking activity!
33. Exchange lists: You could write a list of some of the infinite list of reasons why you love and appreciate your partner, cut them out, put them in a mason jar, and give them to each other on Valentine’s Day. If your partner’s love language is words of affirmation, this is a brilliant, unique Valentine’s Day activity.
There are so many more unique Valentine’s Day ideas out there, so if you have any that I accidentally glossed over, please leave them in the comments!
February 6, 2024

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